In this our present dispensation, loving someone is not enough to keep a beautiful relationship.it is shocking though, but that is the truth.
Many relationships are in sham despite appearing to be perfect. Sometimes the couples pretend to the general public. kissing, holding hands, smooching and even going almost everywhere together but yet all doesn't seem well with them.
Just because you love someone doesn't mean you are going to have a perfect relationship with such person. It takes a deliberate action to work very hard, to keep the relationship all blue, I guess u understand what I mean.
Here I'm going to leave you with some tips in keeping the light in your affair all green and glaring.
From my findings, with proper examination of different relationship, I have been able to observe that, one of bed rock of a good love affair is
1. Effective Communication.
In a relationship where communication is lacking, I can bet anyone on this. It sure going to fail.
Have your partner recently just stop talking to you about somethings he/she do tell you about before. He/she barely argues with you anymore or stop correcting you.
It is not that she now understand you better, don't be deceived, he/she no longer finds discussing with you interesting again, they easily get bored either chatting with you or coming around you.check it carefully it may be a sign and a red light.
The one that struck me so hard is what I'm going to tell you now.
2. Proper Attention.
There's a saying that ladies love attention, that's is true but sincerely not only ladies guys too.
You only give your attention to something that's important to you, and when you aren't doing that, it automatically shows you don't care.
As two love birds, make sure you spend quality time with each other alone, create time to go to the movies together, parks and sometimes clubbing.
Be careful not to allow your job or activities carry you away from your spouse.
Give listening ear to each other even when it seems discomforting to you, u don't know the magic soothing relief you have done to that weighty heart.
Always appreciate every new change no matter how small it is. It maybe a new dress, hair style, or saying thank you after eating a good meal prepared by your spouse, or the fragrance of a perfume he/she is wearing. Just make sure you take note of the tiniest things between each other and appreciate it.
3. Mastering the power of persuasion is one salient key in keeping a healthy relationship.it saves alot of arguments, disagreements and quarrelling. With it ,you can smooth talk your partner to do anything for you.
There was man who wanted his wife to get him a glass of water, while he was sitted at parlour reading a book, his wife was with him at parlour making beads.
He knew very well telling his wife to get him a glass of water would amount his wife to be distracted with all the beads scattered on the floor, therefore making her to start all over. So he wisely told his wife that the meal she prepared yesterday was so sweet, that he hasn't tasted such a nice meal for long time, it seems she has improved her cooking skills.
he continued ,pouring out encomium on his wife and told her to get him the remaining of the food. his wife just jumped up, not minding the beads scattering over the floor and walked straight to the kitchen and while she was moving
towards the kitchen the husband called, honey just get me a glass of water, i will eat the food later. The wife looking very happy served him the glass of water and continued her bead making..
As I'm about rounding up this piece, there is something very important to note here.
Love is all about sharing and giving, and if this is lacking in a relationship it is definitely going to fail. In love you share everything not just material things, ideas, happiness, pain, memories and also let me ask, when last did you surprise your partner with a gift?
Many relationships are in sham despite appearing to be perfect. Sometimes the couples pretend to the general public. kissing, holding hands, smooching and even going almost everywhere together but yet all doesn't seem well with them.
Just because you love someone doesn't mean you are going to have a perfect relationship with such person. It takes a deliberate action to work very hard, to keep the relationship all blue, I guess u understand what I mean.
Here I'm going to leave you with some tips in keeping the light in your affair all green and glaring.
From my findings, with proper examination of different relationship, I have been able to observe that, one of bed rock of a good love affair is
1. Effective Communication.
In a relationship where communication is lacking, I can bet anyone on this. It sure going to fail.
Have your partner recently just stop talking to you about somethings he/she do tell you about before. He/she barely argues with you anymore or stop correcting you.
It is not that she now understand you better, don't be deceived, he/she no longer finds discussing with you interesting again, they easily get bored either chatting with you or coming around you.check it carefully it may be a sign and a red light.
The one that struck me so hard is what I'm going to tell you now.
2. Proper Attention.
There's a saying that ladies love attention, that's is true but sincerely not only ladies guys too.
You only give your attention to something that's important to you, and when you aren't doing that, it automatically shows you don't care.
As two love birds, make sure you spend quality time with each other alone, create time to go to the movies together, parks and sometimes clubbing.
Be careful not to allow your job or activities carry you away from your spouse.
Give listening ear to each other even when it seems discomforting to you, u don't know the magic soothing relief you have done to that weighty heart.
Always appreciate every new change no matter how small it is. It maybe a new dress, hair style, or saying thank you after eating a good meal prepared by your spouse, or the fragrance of a perfume he/she is wearing. Just make sure you take note of the tiniest things between each other and appreciate it.
3. Mastering the power of persuasion is one salient key in keeping a healthy relationship.it saves alot of arguments, disagreements and quarrelling. With it ,you can smooth talk your partner to do anything for you.
There was man who wanted his wife to get him a glass of water, while he was sitted at parlour reading a book, his wife was with him at parlour making beads.
He knew very well telling his wife to get him a glass of water would amount his wife to be distracted with all the beads scattered on the floor, therefore making her to start all over. So he wisely told his wife that the meal she prepared yesterday was so sweet, that he hasn't tasted such a nice meal for long time, it seems she has improved her cooking skills.
he continued ,pouring out encomium on his wife and told her to get him the remaining of the food. his wife just jumped up, not minding the beads scattering over the floor and walked straight to the kitchen and while she was moving
As I'm about rounding up this piece, there is something very important to note here.
Love is all about sharing and giving, and if this is lacking in a relationship it is definitely going to fail. In love you share everything not just material things, ideas, happiness, pain, memories and also let me ask, when last did you surprise your partner with a gift?
Very nice ..thank you armzyville
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