Happy birthday to my big boss Okotex

In climbing the ladder of success, when faced  with the hurdles of taking the next step and you wish not to continue. There's sure one person who will always be there with you and push you up till you get to the peak. Okotex as he is fondly called is that one person with a Midas touch.

He is a man with an unstaggered self believe, positive attitude and benevolent heart, a genius of photograhy...he sees possibility in every difficulty task and knows how to make heinous work seems simple.
 
Congratulation to you my boss, as you celebrate God's amazing grace over your life,  career and business. Happy birthday in a grand style from we here at Armzyville's blog.

A new way to reduce our population

Despite the campaign against the black soot disturbing the Niger delta community, of which residents in portharcourt metropolis stage out a protest to show their grievances against the silent killing monster affecting the life and activities of people.

The Federal Government is still yet to react or shown any response in that regard. The whole campaign have seem to fall on deaf ear.

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The River State government has turn it to a blame game against the Federal government, saying it is a deliberate act of the federal government to reduce the population of the people.

This leave me with the question of when will these politicians stop politicizing with people's life.

This dreadful soot which comes as a result of gas flaring and sundry combustible activities going on in Niger delta, goes up the cloud and then returns back in form of acid rain and soot to pollute our environment poses a great threat to our ecosystem if nothing is done urgently.

Our food is been poisoned, our children are falling sick, our land is loosing it fertility and our life span is been reduced.

We are begging on the government to please respond positively to salvage our environment and lives...

Etty

How to keep your relationship

In this our present dispensation, loving someone is not enough to keep a beautiful relationship.it is shocking though, but that is the truth.

Many relationships are in sham despite appearing to be perfect. Sometimes the couples pretend to the general public. kissing, holding hands, smooching and even going almost everywhere together but yet all doesn't seem well with them.

Just because you love someone doesn't mean you are going to have a perfect relationship with such person. It takes a deliberate action to work very hard, to keep the relationship all blue, I guess u understand what I mean.

Here I'm going to leave you with some tips in keeping the light in your affair all green and glaring.

From my findings, with proper examination of different relationship, I have been able to observe that, one of bed rock of a good love affair is
 1. Effective Communication.

In a relationship where communication is lacking, I can bet anyone on this. It sure going to fail.
Have your partner recently just stop talking to you about somethings he/she do tell you about before. He/she barely argues with you anymore or stop correcting you.

It is not that she now understand you better, don't be deceived, he/she no longer finds discussing with you interesting again, they easily get bored either chatting with you  or coming around you.check it carefully it may be a sign and a red light.

The one that struck me so hard is what I'm going to tell you now.

2. Proper Attention.

There's a saying that ladies love attention, that's is true but sincerely not only ladies guys too.

You only give your attention to something that's important to you, and when you aren't doing that, it automatically shows you don't care.

As two love birds, make sure you spend quality time with each other alone, create time to go to the movies together, parks and sometimes clubbing.
Be careful not to allow your job or activities carry you away from your spouse.
Give listening ear to each other even when it seems discomforting to you, u don't know the magic soothing relief you have done to that weighty heart.

Always appreciate every new change no matter how small it is. It maybe a new dress, hair style, or saying thank you after eating a good meal prepared by your spouse, or the fragrance of a perfume he/she is wearing. Just make sure you take note of the tiniest things between each other and appreciate it.

3. Mastering the power of persuasion is one salient key in keeping a healthy relationship.it saves alot of arguments, disagreements and quarrelling. With it ,you can smooth talk your partner to do anything for you.

There was man who wanted his wife to get him a glass of water, while he was sitted at parlour reading a book, his wife was with him at parlour making beads.
He knew very well telling his wife to get him a glass of water would amount his wife to be distracted with all the beads scattered on the floor, therefore making her to start all over. So he wisely told his wife that the meal she prepared yesterday was so sweet, that he hasn't  tasted such a nice meal for long time, it seems she has improved her cooking skills.

he continued ,pouring out encomium on his wife and told her to get him the remaining of the food. his wife just jumped up, not minding the beads scattering over the floor and walked straight to the kitchen and while she was moving

towards the kitchen the husband called, honey just get me a glass of water, i will eat the food later. The wife looking very happy served him the glass of water and continued her bead making..

As I'm about rounding up this piece,  there is something very important to note here.

Love is all about sharing and giving, and if this is lacking in a relationship it is definitely going to fail. In love you share everything not just material things, ideas, happiness, pain, memories and also let me ask, when last did you surprise your partner with a gift?

As Elections draws closer, criminal are returning from their hide out

I'm really sad with the sorry state these  selfish politicians have drag our beloved country, Nigeria into.

It seems to be a deliberate act, of these so called leaders to impoverish the masses, especially the youth who were recently referred to as being Lazy by President  Muhammadu Buhari.

Just recently I couldn't help but hide my face in shame , when I saw the same people declared by the Federal Government wanted, accompanying thesame politicians and chanting words of praise on them.

These are the same boys, perpetrating evil around, carrying out nefarous activities that has been troubling the peace of the country especially in Rivers state where cults boys are allowed to move freely.

After declaring them wanted, they were on the run, and all moves to apprehend them was abbortive. Today the same politicians have called them out of their hide out, using them again for their selfish reasons all to achieve their political goals.

As 2019 draws nearer,  the more these miscreants are seen gallivanting ,and the security agency seems to be doing nothing about it.
This leaves me with this question, of how then can we make this country better when criminals are allowed to move freely and also been empowered by our politicians.

Strangest thing about falling in love

Recently I was bumped into by one of these OAP asking random questions.

When she got to me she was looking all loved up, happy and with positive energy all around her glowing, and then she asked, what is my greatest fear?...  All those beautiful countenance dropped,  when she got my reply, it was so obvious..

I told her falling in love is one of my greatest phobea, she asked , why ?        because she haven't heard it from anyone like this, before.

The truth is that falling inlove for me, is seen as a weakness. It has adverse effects, though mixed with the good, the bad and ugly. But most times it seems like an opportunity for me to get exploited. I know many may want  to argue this, but the fact remains there's no true love without exploitation by one of the duos in love.

Don't get me wrong, like I'm an evil genius who doesn't believe in love. I do,  in fact I can fall in love in most of the strangest ways.
 In one of my cases I have fallen in love with out knowing ,only when I thought I can just eat and run, my heart starts bleeding and couldn't even concentrate on anything without a flash of the person I was in love with, in my mind.

Sometimes I couldn't even complete any conversation without mentioning her name.

It is indeed a beautiful experience to be in love but it also a bizzare one to get fallout of love while you are in the midst of getting all loved up. 
 Let me explain properly,  while you are still madly taken over by love, your partner get bored with the relationship and seems not to care any shit about you. Then you feel like given up..

  Share your thoughts ...

What is real definition of the word stingy?

what's your definition of stingy?

to me a stingy person is someone you spend on, help in time of his/her needs, but doesn't spend on you and doesn't help in your time of need.

like;
I spend on a guy, help him when he is in need but he doesn't reciprocate back, he gives excuses or blatantly refuses to help me in return.

what's your own definition of stingy? because I've noticed that the word have different meanings to many people. Especially girls who randomly asked of money anytime they just bump into a guy and when they are been refused you are then term stingy.

The word stingy has become a regular word used by girls to lure guys to give them.
 If you are indifferent with me on this issue, comment  below. 

Gov. Wike sympathizes with Corp members over the death of six of their colleagues

 

 The governor of Rivers was saddened and express his displeasure over the death of  Corp members who lost their lives during their active service in his state.

The governor who was represented by Mr Kenneth Kobani at the passing out ceremony yesterday said "report reaching me indicate that we lost six of our Corp members to the cold hands of death, may their soul rest in peace".

To those who successfully finished the service year, Wike acknowledged, "Your distinguished services greatly impacted the social economic landscape of Rivers, your pivotal place in our quest for sustainable development noteworthy through the community development services of the scheme.

"Now faced with seeking gainful employment, I advise you apply yourself to the practical self employment lessons you were exposed through the Skills Acquisition and Entrepreneurial Development Programme in course of the service year as white collar jobs are no longer available to all employable Nigerians. Be self reliant"

As acknowledged by the Rivers state coordinator, NYSC , Sunday Aroni, Overall, 2550 corps members successfully passed out on the on the affected stream while 24 remain on extended service to face various disciplinary measured for various misconduct in course of their duties, just as two distinguished members won awards for meritorious service.

See NEMA show of shame today

It was really absurd today, seeing authorities of NEMA shivering in answering questions about items and funds delivered to them by contractors.Dangote and two other companies yet to be mentioned who were not qualified to handle such contract claimed to have delivered items costing over 5.8bn

The so called leadership of NEMA have still, not be able to give a clear information of how they have distributed this items and money worth 5.8bn There is discrepancy between items distributed by contractors and items received by NEMA.

The hearing was presided over by the Deputy Chairman of the Committee, Hon. Ali Isa.

In their reports, the Federal Inland Revenue Service (FIRS), the National Pension Commission (PENCOM) and the Industrial Training Fund (ITF), revealed that the NEMA boss violated the law on tax and other breaches in the contracts to the companies.

The separate reports adopted by the Committee during the hearing specifically stated that the NEMA’s boss did not carry out due diligence and financial regulations on the companies to know their qualifications and their status before awarding the multi-million Naira contracts to them.