Help; I've been dating two brothers without knowing, lady cries out

I have been dating and sleeping with two brothers without knowing they are family.

I met the older brother when I was serving in Ogun state and after service I got a job in Lagos State then I met the younger as a colleague working together.




That's how I got myself involve with both brothers. I got to know they are related after I stumbled on the elder brother's Instagram page and I saw their family pictures when they were together.

Hard to wrap my head cos I never thought I'd be bleeping two brothers without me getting to place a connection.
 The problem now is, the elder one invited me last weekend to his place in Ogun state(he was retained after NYSC in Ogun state) and surprisingly he proposed to me and I didn't want to say yes or collect the ring but at the same time I also didn't want to embarrass him in front of his friends.




So he wore the ring on my finger and everyone was happy, I was happy and surprised too but the thought of both of them dating me keep moving in my head cos the younger one has been getting so serious lately too and has been talking about how we are going to make fine babies together.

I didn't say anything till I left his place on sunday and he's yet to post videos and photos from the proposal party cos I told him to keep everything low key for now.

Please how do I handle this? I'm confuse. It's not my fault.

Shocking as a young man quits his job to face Yahoo hustle full-time

A tweeter user has taken to the online social media to reveal how his friend decided to quit his banking job to face Yahoo hustle full-time.
Source: https://twitter.com/Fube_Ent/status/1118583136844165122




This post which is currently sparking up reactions which has had online commenter to condemn the act while others are in support of the young man move saying he shouldn't be blamed that  it's as a result of the bad economy of the country.

How I slept with twin sisters without knowing

Man shares his experience after having sex with twin sisters without knowing, read below

"So I met a girl via a friend. We got to talk and it eventually led to hot sex. Somehow we lost contact and I couldn't reach her.

Found her on IG after a year and decided to chat her up but she started acting weird so I had to describe how we met and all. She eventually remembered and we tried meeting up again.




Again rekindled the flare and it lead to sex. So I didn't want to be just that so I told her we should hangout, I'm beginning to like her and I want a steady relationship. She said she would only go out if she brings her sister. I was OK with it.

On that faithful day I was busy waiting for them at the mall. I saw her coming out from her car. Then I saw what made my heart skip. Another of herself was opening the passenger's door. They are bleeping identical twins. OMG. To make matters worse they wore similar clothes so I didn't know who I was sleeping with. Then both smiled and made me looked stupid.




After so much haste and begging so they could clear the uncertainty. I realized that I have been sleeping with two sisters. I felt used.

Now I don't know what to do and to be frank I don't know who is who. Please what should I do."

Why my wife's death caused me to be traumatized

"The worst thing that has ever happened to me was the death of my wife, barely a month after marriage.
I understood a lot of things then,
Why people commit suicide, why people talk to themselves, why people lose focus.

 We were so young, I was 28, she was 25 and the love of my life .
I resigned a high paying job because I couldn't focus, I haven't washed my clothes or cooked in over 3years of dating.

 But the worst of it was all the frequent calls and talking through the day. I had no one to call, she was my best friend.





I was an angry wrecking ball, angry with God, life, everything. 3 years after, I'm still single, i'm healed of the hurt and anger but a part of me is gone. I couldn't talk to anyone about how I felt.

 I was dying inside, No appetite, can't work, always angry. I wasn't alive.

But I let myself grief. I didn't try to stop it or find someone, I wanted healing so I can give my best to the next lady.

Life felt so worthless then but Christ came for me. He showed me that something good can come from a bad situation, reminded me of all God's generals.




I saw that grief was a part of making me grow.
I still miss my wife, I still love her, We had dreams, she made a man from the boy I was.
But I know more the depths of God's love because it found me when I even wanted to die."

How trending fashion causes vaginal overheating , Dr Mbume explains.

Dr Tony Mbume, who works with CIAGIN Medical Laboratory in Lagos has advised women to stop wearing tight jeans, synthetic panties and leggings, to prevent vaginal infections.

According to him, because of recent fashion trends most Nigerian females opt to wear these synthetic pants, leggings and tight jeans without considering the health implications. Mbume disclosed this to the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Lagos that synthetic wears caused the vagina to ‘overheat’, which could disrupt its ecosystem.




He said that under wears made of latex, nylon or polyester and synthetic materials could trap moisture and warmth, making the vagina vulnerable to different types of infection

“Synthetic panties can cause the vagina area to overheat and this can sometimes cause burning sores, itching or irritate the sensitive skin, as well as causing blisters.

“The friction caused by walking in tight pants and jeans can irritate the skin, resulting in the formation of blisters,’’ he said.

He also revealed that the vaginal burning and itching was usually accompanied by discharge and bad odour.

He further said that such infections could be dangerous if left untreated, as it might lead to infertility due to damage of the reproductive organs.




The microbiologist, however, recommended cotton underwear, to ventilate the vagina and eliminate infections, adding that wearing cotton underwear helped to keep the vagina free of excessive moisture and allows the area to breathe.

“Use cotton menstrual pads too. Cotton absorbs excess moisture and removes buildup heat from the area. It is the only materials that can become stronger when wet and is easily sterilized after use.

“Avoid sleeping with pants at night, to keep the vagina area dry throughout the night,’’

Faith at work

A man of God was returning from his daily evangelism program when he was obstructed by a lady one evening. He tried to sway himself out but the lady insisted on holding him back then he said to the lady please madam I'm very tired as u can see and I'm just returning from evangelism can you please let go of me but still, the lady obstinate.





 So after a failed persuasion attempt by the man of God, so he decided to ask the lady what do you want?

She said pastor as you can see I'm frustrated and my marriage is on the brick of crashing because I can't bear children and I have tried all I could and also i have been to so many places yet my predicament seems not to have change.

Then the man of God responded what do you want me to do ?

 the lady replied saying, I believe if you can pray for me my problem will be over.

The man who was tired and just looking for a means to get home so that he can rest, spoke to God in his heart and asked, Lord want do you want me to do and lord said to him just pray.




So he laid his hands on the lady and made a word of a prayer saying by this time next year you will carry your own baby and then he left.

But the lady ran after him asking sir, is that all, the man of God replied yes and left.

Years later, after ministering in a church which he was invited, a lady approached him saying pastor do you recognise me, the man of God smile in amazement and decline, because he couldn't remember anything about the lady.

So the lady began to give her account to him of how she intercepted him some years back when he was returning from evangelism and so she asked him to pray for her because she couldn't bear children and her marriage was about to crash because of that.

Then the man of God nod his head in affirmation saying o... I remember, then he asked how is your marriage now then the lady replied well... This little boy standing beside me is the result of that prayer and my marriage is good now. I never had the chance to thank you sir that's why  I came waited to see you.

Other inspiring stories on this blog;
The power of forgiveness

How I almost slept with my brother's fiancee
Forgiveness, a panacea for depression